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Since then, Chris Chan has been painted as the archetypal stereotype of the Sonic kinkster’s culture: antisocial, emotionally stunted, and burdened with some significant personality disorders.

For one thing, notes Kitty Stryker—a sex writer, activist, and long-time kinkster—the same terms, or rankings of interest or experience in them, could mean drastically different things to people.

“Well,” the Kinkster, as he is also commonly referred to, especially in the third person, proclaims, “you get the drift.”

As a professional dominatrix and lifelong kinkster, I welcome this but also offer a warning.

Universal Studios has snapped up the film rights, and the internet is agog with speculation as to which Hollywood hunk will play emotionally cretinous kinkster Christian Grey and who will land the plum role of faux-intellectual bore-bag Anastasia Steele.